Is Your Husband A Gentleman, Or A Bastard?
When the Gentleman Becomes a Heel
You’ll never get to know which type of fish you have caught till you have baited and married him. Marriage is a great eye-opener, and whatever blemishes in character you have missed, you’ll discover these in due time. The first chance was discovering a Zippo lighter with a cheesy etching of undying love in your man’s back pocket.
It was surely not from you because you gave him one of those military Zippo lighters, one with a big red letter M and an iconic marine picture on chrome. That was a fairly new Zippo edition, so the piece you’re looking at is certainly not yours. The lighter displayed a playboy bunny, definitely not something you’d give your husband.
Now you you’re sure your husband is seeing somebody else, thanks to that personalized Zippo you found. The thought can be devastating. No wonder the tears on your cheeks have not disappeared because you cannot confront the bastard. Anyway, whether he denies or admits the truth, the harm has been done.
It sure does clear the air if he says something like “I am sorry.” But if he’s a repeat offender, a million ‘I’m sorries’ won’t bring back that old comfortable footing in your marriage.
The Gentleman, or the Heel
Wedded men, though not all, will taste the forbidden fruit of extramarital relationships. How they react to getting caught or discovered exposes the chap or cad that he is.
The gentleman will confess to his infidelity, will be truly sorry about hurting you, and will do his best to make up for it. The bastard, however, will [/spin]harangue|bluster[/spin] his way out of the circumstance, terrorize you, and call you a jealous witch, which actually, you are at the moment.
Your gentlemen of a hubby will campaign to woo you back and obediently drop his shoe into the shoe basket every time he arrives from work. He’ll do anything to make you feel the vindicated victor. The bastard? He’ll persist to do as he wishes, and tell you to buff his Doc Martens because he has to leave ASAP, just when he just breezed in!
A man won’t actually abuse|maltreat you, but will be definitely. The cad will take every chance to abuse you everytime he gets cranky, lousy, hungry, or if thekids are rowdy.
Definitely, the gentleman won’t go for a divorce; the bastard will ask for it.