Dating Online - Getting The Girl Just Got Easier!
Most guys believe that meeting women online is as simple as putting up a profile and waiting for the women to start emailing you for a date. The thing is – most guys don’t realize that the world of dating online is actually very competitive – and in order to get anywhere, you have to understand the things to do, and the things NOT to do.
The first thing you need to do is write an HONEST – and catchy – profile. Think of it kind of like show and tell – you want to tell her about yourself, but you also need to SHOW her. You can do this by using stories to tell her about yourself. Think about it – how many profiles do you read that say, “I like moonlight walks, animals and candlelight dinners….” BORING!!!!! Come on!
Instead – tell a story about yourself that exemplifies your personality. Tell her about the time you went hiking in the mountains, and what you saw, experienced and felt. Tell her what it made you feel and try to show the reader through example what is important to you, what you love, cherish and want. Tell a story that shows your sense of humor or your ability to take care of things for other people.
The main thing is – you need to show her (by HER, I mean the women reading your profile) that you are smart, funny, and above all and attractive man.
By the way, do you know what actually attracts women ? Did you know that women are not attracted to guys because of their looks? It’s true. I mean, ya, sure – women notice hot guys. BUT – what a woman wants is a man who makes her FEEL a certain way. She wants a man who will make her feel like she is safe and protected, and like YOU can handle any situation in a cool and yet thoroughly masculine way.
So these are things you need to portray in your online profile. I have been reading up on a lot of things about dating online and your profile is one of the most important things you can do. I have also gotten David Deangelo’s program, meeting women online and have learned a TON about how to meet women online. It’s a really in depth program and totally worth it.
Anyway – another thing about your profile, or any email you write to a girl – NO WINKS! Don’t send those little nudges to a woman and then wait for her to respond. Get the balls to make your approach first, whether it be online or in the real world. Don’t even send smileys in an email – that’s just …girly. Don’t do it.
What you DO want to do when meeting women online is to make her laugh. Be witty and funny – something David Deangelo calls “Cocky Comedy”. What it is – is using humor to spark attraction. You bust on her about the little things, like telling her that her shirt is ugly or she needs spell-check – and challenge her. Make her want to prove something to you.
Using all these elements will dramatically improve your success in dating online. There are a lot of other guys out there that want to meet that beautiful and special woman, you have to make yourself stand out in the crowd. Do this by learning to stand out, showing your masculinity and sparking attraction in the woman. Trust me, this works!!!