Magic Of Making Up Book - 4 Ways To Stop Your Man Dumping You
If your man has left you then this is understandably an emotional and difficult time but do you realize you could have prevented this before your relationship started to hit problems.
Even if your man has left you for another woman, then it may surprise you to learn that it may have nothing to do with the other woman being more attractive or sexier. This is usually the first thing spurned women will think about.
Just like a woman desires attention from her man so do men from their women. It’s a two-way street and one of the points highlighted in the Magic Of Making Up Book yet people still leave each other everyday.
So acting irrationally right now will just push him further away. The reasons go deeper than just the other woman. For example, can you remember when you first got together and how you would go out of your way to do the little things to impress him.
The Magic Of Making Up Book covers this aspect and “makes no bones” about the fact it can eat away at a relationship over time. Your man didn’t make his decision overnight. If another woman is at play then it’s more than likely he has been seeing the same qualities in her you displayed in the early days of your relationship.
The question has to be asked…did you become comfortable in your relationship and did things such as your dress sense around the home start to taper off?
Did listening to his attempts at humor start to wear thin and disinterest you? Or, did his habits which you once thought were funny or interesting start to annoy you to the point where you had to vent to him constantly?
Did you stop encouraging him and praising him or more to the point, stop respecting him? All of the above will gradually affect a bond and this is one of the reasons men will stray from their relationships.
4 Things Men Want In A Relationship
The simple truth is, men will exit a relationship most times because there not getting what they want from it. So what do they want?
Here’s a shortlist and see if any of these resonate with you:
1. Men crave attention. There’s a lot of truth in the statement that men don’t really grow up following the attention they receive from the mothers. Believe it or not, this is the type of attention they continue to look for in a relationship.
2. Admiration is a big part of a man’s life. They like to be admired and while many may not achieve this in their social sphere, they at least expect it within the walls of their own own.
3. Respect is another craving men desire. In fact, it’s just about up there with the first two reasons. Lack of respect will soon convince a man that it’s time to get into an environment where he gets it and if he begins to get it from another woman then you do the maths.
4. Men hate to feel like their partner is unsatisfied with them. This is a combination of the first three points plus they like to be wanted.
The Magic Of Making Up Book highlights these points and more but doesn’t stop there. It provides possible solutions to help you win back your man if that’s the path you want to take.